I was maybe thinking down the line getting another one. I love their personality or at least mine. The thought of a look alike is comforting to me. But I don’t know if that’s a good idea either. I don’t want to end up resenting it for not being exactly like my chili if that makes sense. Any thoughts on that?
Grief is different for all of us and different even each time we experience it. So follow your heart. Yes obviously you must have a new love in your life. Your pictures show what a great parent you are. But only you will know when the time is right.
They are each so unique, they will be their own selves and you will love them for them. They won't be a replacement, or the same. When people expect that their can be trouble. And I e seen a few people stuck in that rut , always comparing the new one to the old one , and they can never live up to that . I e seen people jump in in to soon and regret it. I've also seen so many who it helped to have a new one around
Edit: I agree I have to have them look different. Or even be a new species if I was really wanting a different species.
I lost my blue quaker, and I didn't think I'd ever be able to have a blue one again . I met Ms y if all different colors. But I found a blue one in need. Who really needed someone who understoid quakers and would help her behavioral screaming. So I got her. She is so much her own self , that it doesn't trigger me about my lodt love...so I guess I'm in both sides